We are commanded to forgive others, God is really after our own good. So forgive from the heart and set yourself free.

This is what we shared to the kids last Sunday at the Awesome Kids Ministry service.


Remember, forgiveness is for our benefit. The other person’s behavior may never change. It is up to God, not us, to change others. Our responsibility is to be set free from the pressure and weight of an unforgiving attitude.

We took a bottle of water and some effervescent vitamin tablets.

We encouraged the children to think of someone they need to forgive.
• Someone hit you and pushed you down.
• Someone won’t let you play a game.
• Someone broke something of yours.
• Someone called you an unkind name.
• Someone took what you were playing with and won’t share it.

We talked about how they were hurt. They felt mad.

We encouraged them to ask God to let go of these feelings.

We asked the kids to put a piece of the tablet in the water and the children imagined asking God to help them forgive.

As the bubbles start to come off the tablets, they imagined giving the hurt feelings to God.

The tablets took a while to dissolve, which also illustrated that sometimes it might take a long time to forgive.

The water might also have changed color, which illustrates that it’s not as if the thing that hurt you had never happened, it’s just been changed by God.

For the craft activity, they colored an artwork that reminds them to always be kind and good to others.

I felt God’s embrace every Sunday because of these children.

Their presence affirm God’s abounding graces and mercy.

They taught me more to love and to live life.

A simple activity but has a profound meaning.

It was difficult for me to forgive few years back but I learned to let go.

To more years of serving and loving the children of God!

He Cares




More than 200 kids from the poorest of the poor in the neighborhood of Quezon City taught me today the deeper meaning of true love.

Every Saturday, they looked forward to the feeding party led by Bro. Joe Dean Solas, a lay missionary who devoted his life in fulfilling God’s call of faith and hope.

He Cares Mission, a street children caring center started in 1996 with a humble promise made by Bro. Joe Dean to two little street children that they will never be hungry again.


He Cares

Together with our Light Group, Bro. Joe Dean Sola (seated in cap) was a source of inspiration to many. He founded He Cares, they takes care of street children, offering five programs that cater to the children’s spirituality, health, family, life, education, and livelihood.

The day started with prayer and thanksgiving through worship songs.

Then a short program followed. I took charge of the games.

It was not easy at first.

It was difficult.

Very challenging.

But, I learned to let go.

I just smiled a lot and I let God took full control.

I knew they enjoyed it.

Their smiles and loudest cheers took my breath away.

They have been to a lot of challenges.

A few minutes of fun and laughter was all that matters.

They are still kids after all.

It was the first outreach activity for 2018 of our Light Group (LG).

I was grateful to Bro. Mark and Sis. Lorrie Calangian together with their children Lance and Chase for sharing their service love.

They tagged me along for a road trip from Cavite to the City of Stars and it was a memorable journey.

After the short program, the volunteers prepared for a sumptuous feast of spaghetti, fried chicken, rice, water turned into iced tea, fruit salad and a mini pancake with choco fillings donated by a generous Japanese businessman who visits the center monthly.

The feeding party was organized by Bro. Joe Dean with love.

Lots of it.

He encouraged the volunteers to always smile.

Every table were assigned to a feeding facilitator that helped the children on their needs.

I met Kathleen, a kindergarten student who had difficulties finishing her food. Her seatmates encouraged her to wipe out the fried chix and rice. She brought home the fruit salad.

After the feeding party, the volunteers were led to a short thanksgiving prayer and had lunch. I met other volunteers who have the same passion of serving others.

A short presentation about a new vision for He Cares in the coming years was shared.

Help build the He Cares Mission Promised Land – a sustainable farm community that aims to go beyond feeding and giving shelter for a day, towards giving a meaningful and abundant life day after day after day.

To know more about the program visit http://www.hecaresmission.com and find ways on how you can make a difference.

Bro. Joe Dean toured us around the He Cares Mission Center and mingled with the fulltime workers.

Their story of selfless love was inspiring.

I encouraged you to volunteer now.

Visit them at No. 9 Mines St., Project 6, Quezon City or contact them at (+63) 02 928-8910 or (+63) 02 453-0100. You can also email: hecaresfoundation@gmail.com.

They also accept donation thru bank account name:

He Cares Foundation, Inc.
Bank of the Philippines
Savings Account #1953093053


I have always loved cartoons. I might not watch as many cartoons now as I did when I was a kid but I enjoy them way more than any other adult I know. A significant part of my childhood has been spent watching cartoons, especially Tom & Jerry.

I saw this Tom & Jerry – true to life photo shared by Mr. Jerry Fernandez, a dear friend from India and a former colleague in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia.


The bitter-sweet relationship of Tom and Jerry taught us why life is meaningless without a partner to share moments of fun and laughter with.

This particular piece of animation uncovers the reality of our everyday life.

The twisted friendship between Tom and Jerry draws a brilliant analogy with the relationships we share with people in today’s world.

According to NoisyRadicals.com, there are valuable life lessons from Tom & Jerry:

There will always be someone you will meet in your life who will make you feel ‘small’ or ‘big’.

We often feel that others are more superior than us and believe that there is someone better than us and we are, after all, not that great.

Your strength and your might is not measured in physical attributes. You are bigger than you think you are!

It is not always the external appearance that matters. The ways we think also matters a lot. A person should not be judged as a powerful human being only in the basis of his/her physical strength.

Is there ever a shortcut to success? Haven’t we all learned it the hard way?

We often tend to take shortcuts to reach the acme of success. But the shows presents a lesson that there is absolutely no shorter way to achieve what we really want in life.

Life will constantly push you. Change is the only constant.

We hardly take a moment to breathe and don’t take enough breaks. We have reached a stage where when we do take moment to chill, we feel restless. Even though, this show was made way before the internet generation was born, it spectacularly sketches an image of something way ahead of its time.

Every scar is a story to tell.

Crossing difficult destinations with patience and determination makes us a strong person. The same is implied in the cartoon. Every experience is a lesson to be learnt.

Changing the way, you look at a problem can prove to be a game-changer.

When one solution we think does not solve the problem, then think from a different perspective to solve it. Jerry tries to escape in every different way and Tom chases the same way. So it is all about looking at a problem from a different perspective just like Tom & Jerry who never seem to give up.


The day was ordinary. We found ourselves once again in the aisles of Shopwise checking off a list full of items for the holiday season. I knew cold weather was coming and wanted to grab some Energen for my mother and a hot choco made of tablea so we’d be ready for the Dawn Mass or Simbang Gabi.

As we stood there trying to decide if we wanted some gelatin for Noche Buena, an elderly lady fumbled beside us. She reached out for a box, but several more fell off the shelf as she did. My nieces rushed to help her pick them up. She thanked us and we all went about our shopping.

When we got in line, the same lady happened to pull up behind us. One of my niece offered to unload her basket onto the conveyor belt for her. She happily agreed.

As the girls worked, I talked with her about the holiday frenzy during Christmas and how it made everyone like shopzilla.

Before we finished, the lola leaned a little closer to me and whispered, “Thank you for showing me a glimpse of God’s love today. I didn’t think kind or caring adults existed in today’s society, much less children.”

As we walked away that day I felt thrilled that she saw loving kindness in us, but also sad that a woman of her age had come to believe that caring people no longer existed. But I knew she was right.

Just a shopping experience at any retail shop is enough to discourage you with people stealing parking places, cutting you off in line, and employees not really interested in helping.

But I’m not willing to give up. God has commanded us to serve others. He’s given us this beautiful and wonderful task of loving every one we come into contact with.

The Bible says that Jesus himself didn’t come to be great, but to be a servant.


God loves a cheerful servant! The Awesome Kids Ministry team during the first general assembly for 2018.

Last Sunday, the Awesome Kids Ministry had their first servants general assembly for the year. I was asked to host the event together with Bro. Fred and Bro. Rommel.

The presence of the servants inspired me to look beyond service. They are God’s loving presence to the kids every Sunday.

There are many things that God asks us to do in response to our love for Him. One of them is serving others. We are not required to do these things in order to be saved.

Rather, it is our natural desire to want to obey God as a result of what He has done for us.

True service really is about doing good to other people as often as you have an opportunity.

It’s about sharing whatever it is that God has given you in that moment. That might be money, time, advice, food, clothes, or even a hug. I think we make serving others into this grand thing when it’s really this simple.

Doing service for others cannot only help those being served, but also aid God in his work. Those who serve also gain immeasurable benefits including drawing closer to God as well as to those we serve.

Be an answer to someone’s prayer by learning to serve God by helping others.


My wife is a certified lola’s girl.

Last Sunday, she missed the family celebration of Andang Polonia or Nana Nonie’s 85th birthday (the loving mother of Papa Franco).


Andang Polonia’s 85th birthday celebration with the family.

On her behalf, I attended the gathering.

I felt her sincerest desire to be with us.

If she had a chance to share a poem to Nana Nonie, it will go like this:

I was thinking of love, and you came to mind.

I have many memories I would like to rewind.

Do you remember those days I would lie in your lap
As you doodled my ears, I would take a short nap.

I’m remembering the nights that we spent together.
You would scratch my back gently, ever so tender.

As I rewind a bit more, I am seeing much fun. I know as a child I was full of sumpong, maldita, stubborn, selfish, and strange,

But look at me now, and how much I’ve changed.

I close my eyes and try to form a complete picture of everything about you.

I took a deep breath, smell coffee, and then I open my once closed eyes and see you.
You are there.

I reach to touch your comforting face and realize just how much I miss you.

You are part of me.

You are the one that can take a spread of margarine and a pandesal and turn it into a feast for God.

You are the one who taught me to find beauty in everyone and everything and that judgment is unnecessary.

I look up at the light blue colored sky and thank God.

You, the woman that is everything positive and strong,

You, the titanium wall that stands 60 feet tall and blocks evil, prejudice, and all wrong in this world is my grandmother…my Nana.

Loves solving puzzles and a lover of life.


There is a tender revelation each time I am reminded that God loved me first.

Today, the children at the Awesome Kids Ministry were reminded about the unfailing love of God to man.

From a crown of heart, which symbolizes love – the kids felt God’s embrace on a Sunday afternoon.


God’s unfailing love – felt & shared ❤

On a deeper reflection, if I love God truly, I would also be loving towards everyone in my life.

I simply cannot really love God in the way that He loves me, unless I also love everybody else.

Do you say you love me? I hear Christ asking me. I want to say yes, yes Lord, you know how much I do. Yet I also know my brokenness, my pettiness, resentments, and judgements. I am aware of my sins, especially the ones that seem to recycle themselves.

God never once says, “You are a sinner? Leave my sight.”

No, he says, “You are a sinner? Follow me.”

He walks with me every step of the way, like a true friend and a dear father.

Christ teaches me how to love by showing me love.

The power of knowing we are loved makes all things possible.

God loves you so much ❤


The Awesome Kids team was inspired today to always obey and respect their parents. They enjoyed a day of prayer, worship, watching inspiring videos and more colors.


On the other hand, the activity reminded me of my teenage years and if I will share a life lesson to a younger version of myself, this I have to say.

Obeying your parents is one of the most difficult things to do as a teenager. This is a time that you want to spread your wings and do things on your own. You want your independence, and you want to prove you can be a responsible adult. Yet there is still a level of needing your parents to guide you through this time, and there is still so much you can learn from them while you’re still a teen.

Obeying Your Parents Leads to Wisdom
There are times when obeying your parents can be really tough.

We all think we know enough to make our own decisions. But do we really? God reminds us that it is a foolish man that does not seek to become more disciplined and wise (Proverbs 1:7-9). The most important people in our lives are our parents.

They can be the greatest guides we have in this life, and they can lead us in the path God has for us…if we let them. For most of us, our parents offer advice and discipline out of love, and we would do well to listen and learn from what they have to say.

Obedience Brings You Closer to God
God is the father of us all. There is a reason why we use a term like father to describe our relationship with Him because just as we are to obey our parents, we are to obey God. If we cannot obey our earthly parents, how are we to obey our Heavenly one? Faithfulness comes out of obedience to God. As we learn to obey, we learn to be wise in making our decisions in life.

As we learn to obey, we learn to open up our eyes and ears to God’s plan for us. Obedience is the first step in living a Christian life. It helps give us strength in our faith and the ability to overcome temptations that can lead us astray.

Obeying is Hard
Yet no one says obeying our parents is easy.
Sometimes it feels like our parents are from a whole other world. Sure, they come from a different generation, and we may not always understand their reasoning. However, we don’t alway understand God, either, but we know that what God does is for our own good. In the case of our parents, it’s that way, too. We need to realize, though, that there will be pitfalls in obeying our parents, and there will be times that obedience becomes so difficult. Yet obedience takes work.

Here are some of my tips for you my younger self that is also applicable to you now;

Listen. One of the easiest ways to learn from your parents is to listen to what they have to say. It’s hard to obey your parents when you don’t actually hear what they’re telling you. You’d be amazed at what you’ll hear when you take the time to absorb what your parents are telling you.

Show respect. There is nothing as frustrating when a parent is talking to their teen as an eye roll. You may not agree with your parents’ decisions, but obeying your parents begins with showing them respect. It’s okay to ask questions or ask for clarification on a rule or something you disagree with, but it’s important to do so in a respectful manner. If you just push and yell and scream, it is unlikely that your parents will actually hear your objections. Disrespect will put a wall between you and your parents immediately.

Have patience. It’s easy to immediately jump on your parents when you disagree with them. It’s also easy to hold a grudge when they’re wrong. However, your parents are human just like you. Obeying your parents means accepting that all they do isn’t perfect. They make mistakes, too, just like you. So, have some patience for the times that they don’t quite do things right, and know that you can learn just as much from their mistakes as your own.

Communicate. Going to be late for curfew? Try calling ahead. Not sure you can get your chores done when they ask? Explain why. Communication is key to having a good relationship with our parents. When you communicate with them about what’s going on in your life, you will find that they will accept that you are becoming a responsible adult. Ask them for advice, talk to them about school … it’s every teen’s desire to be private, and some privacy is understandable, but know that when you don’t communicate it breeds suspicion. A great way to obey your parents is to talk to them about things. It’s amazing how much communication will be a key to you getting along with them, too.